Do whatever you can, to feel good, because when you feel good, life will be good.
Wednesday 1 January 2014
Sunday 22 December 2013
Those 10 minutes
This time I have a story to narrate.
Lately I visited a place.It was 10 AM in the morning. On the first floor of the building was a big hall. Around 50 little kids were lined up on the floor in a corner of the room. None of them was more than 5-6 years old, too young to understand their fate. The elder ones had already left for their school, and these kids were to leave after having food. They were waiting for their lunch (brunch, as we call it).
Two of them ran towards us, not greedy but curious to know what we had in the polythene bag for them. They were glad to see the bag full of hot jalebis on that cold morning.
Their superintendent told us about their life. She was amused to describe that these kids do not like to sleep on bed. They prefer to sleep on a gaadi instead! Everyone had a gaadi of their own and all shared the same hall to sleep. Those who were too young, had got a small room nearby, which was confined enough to save them from the cold; they had no rajai to cover themselves.
It must now be easy to guess that this place was an orphanage!
I was tearful and had goosebumps after this incidence. Though a trivial one, but this incidence gave me a lesson. A lesson that I have read and heard many times, but understood the true meaning after this. We often crave for all that we want, but are not contended over what we have. We mourn on our failures and neglect our achievements. These children, they are homeless, parent-less...
Lately I visited a place.It was 10 AM in the morning. On the first floor of the building was a big hall. Around 50 little kids were lined up on the floor in a corner of the room. None of them was more than 5-6 years old, too young to understand their fate. The elder ones had already left for their school, and these kids were to leave after having food. They were waiting for their lunch (brunch, as we call it).
Two of them ran towards us, not greedy but curious to know what we had in the polythene bag for them. They were glad to see the bag full of hot jalebis on that cold morning.
Their superintendent told us about their life. She was amused to describe that these kids do not like to sleep on bed. They prefer to sleep on a gaadi instead! Everyone had a gaadi of their own and all shared the same hall to sleep. Those who were too young, had got a small room nearby, which was confined enough to save them from the cold; they had no rajai to cover themselves.
It must now be easy to guess that this place was an orphanage!
I was tearful and had goosebumps after this incidence. Though a trivial one, but this incidence gave me a lesson. A lesson that I have read and heard many times, but understood the true meaning after this. We often crave for all that we want, but are not contended over what we have. We mourn on our failures and neglect our achievements. These children, they are homeless, parent-less...
Wednesday 18 December 2013
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
In: Birthday, celebrate, Happy, life, memories, My Birthday, poem
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In: Birthday, celebrate, Happy, life, memories, My Birthday, poem
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...And then I landed to the planet
...And then I landed to the planet,
Neither as an angel nor a princess,
But yet another ordinary girl,
With every passing year,
I had countless cheers,
and a few tears,
a lot to learn,
and a lot of experience,
a lot of success and celebrations,
and so much to thank the almighty,
for giving to me all that I have!
Years later,
A new day has started,
I have aged one more year,
God had gifted my life with yet another year,
or has reduced an year out of my life!
Yet, this one year of my life has given me so much!
Gratitude, compassion, success, belief, love for fellow human
beings,
If I count my blessings, they are countless, infinite.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
Sunday 27 October 2013
Sunday, October 27, 2013
In: beautiful, dark, fair, Happy, perspective, slim, society, success
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In: beautiful, dark, fair, Happy, perspective, slim, society, success
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Fair is Lovely, Thin is Beautiful
Planning to buy the latest beauty cream...? Or may be, having a sip of green tea after a tiresome gym routine!
Which complexion do you own - Fair, medium fair / wheatish, dusky, dark?
In a country where majority of people are dark skin, there is this preconceived notion that has been conditioned in the society to look fair and slim. In the current pretext, this is not only applicable for women but for men too. When it comes to songs, they sing-"Gori Gori", the pretty girl.
Why is it that it that whitening products in India have a 2000 crore industry? to add more, men are now joining women in the fairness bandwagon for the pro-fairness obsession that has now existed for decades.
Is the fairness industry itself fair or ugly?
Why is it that it that fair and lovely is the largest selling product in India than any other country and its sale is growing manifold every year? The TV ads selling fairness products link success and confidence to being fair. Forget about working hard, it's all about skin color.
While some Americans have made bitterly racist remarks about Miss America Nina Davuluri based on the color of her skin, it seems that people in India have problems with her dark skin as well.
When it comes to being thin, I seldom stick my eyeballs to posts over the internet and newspapers to find ways to loose weight.
We may ask ourselves a question - Why Do You Want To Be Slim?
Is it because you think you should? Because others have been pressuring you to? Because your doctor said so? Because you are getting married? Because you have a holiday? Because you think it will make you happy? Because you saw a holiday photo and was horrified? Because you want to wear clothes of your choice?Do you feel inferior or lose confidence in front of your slim friends? etc etc
With people starving for days and facing hectic exercise routines, things have clearly gone frighteningly awry. Locked in a battle with their own bodies, and trying to mould themselves into a shape they were never meant to be, many women lose touch with themselves, and what is truly right for them.
So the real question shouldn't be, 'can you be fat and happy?' but 'are you?'
We are quite simply not all meant to be the same, and it's time to celebrate and embrace diversity.
Which complexion do you own - Fair, medium fair / wheatish, dusky, dark?
They say, "Beauty lies not in eyes of beholder". If so, is it the societal pressure to be fair?
In a country where majority of people are dark skin, there is this preconceived notion that has been conditioned in the society to look fair and slim. In the current pretext, this is not only applicable for women but for men too. When it comes to songs, they sing-"Gori Gori", the pretty girl.
Why is it that it that whitening products in India have a 2000 crore industry? to add more, men are now joining women in the fairness bandwagon for the pro-fairness obsession that has now existed for decades.
Is the fairness industry itself fair or ugly?Why is it that it that fair and lovely is the largest selling product in India than any other country and its sale is growing manifold every year? The TV ads selling fairness products link success and confidence to being fair. Forget about working hard, it's all about skin color.
We may ask ourselves a question - Why Do You Want To Be Slim?
Is it because you think you should? Because others have been pressuring you to? Because your doctor said so? Because you are getting married? Because you have a holiday? Because you think it will make you happy? Because you saw a holiday photo and was horrified? Because you want to wear clothes of your choice?Do you feel inferior or lose confidence in front of your slim friends? etc etc
With people starving for days and facing hectic exercise routines, things have clearly gone frighteningly awry. Locked in a battle with their own bodies, and trying to mould themselves into a shape they were never meant to be, many women lose touch with themselves, and what is truly right for them.
So the real question shouldn't be, 'can you be fat and happy?' but 'are you?'
We are quite simply not all meant to be the same, and it's time to celebrate and embrace diversity.
Saturday 5 October 2013
Right wrong, wrong right. Puzzled!
Disclaimer : This article doesn't intend to hurt any person's religious feelings, any community, country or people.
He sacrificed his brothers, sons, his entire kingdom and even his own life for the sake of his sister's pride! He abducted someone's wife and imprisoned her for several years. You are correct, I am talking about Ravan.
He sacrificed his brothers, sons, his entire kingdom and even his own life for the sake of his sister's pride! He abducted someone's wife and imprisoned her for several years. You are correct, I am talking about Ravan.
The other day, during a conversation, someone gave me the example
of Ravan to define evil.
Ravan is regarded as "wrong". Beyond any doubt, he
should be, cause this is how he is being portrayed in the epic and subsequently
in all the TV shows. For a moment, if you keep aside ethics and rectify the
fact that he must have been "right" on his part!? After all, every
girl in the contemporary world needs a brother like him. And every wife needs a
husband who doesn't touch a woman without her consent.
In no way do I intend to contrast the epic but to highlight the
unvarnished truth that what is the precise definition of right and wrong!
Possibly, it is about the mindset that varies from person to person, community
to community, society to society, religion to religion...
Aren't
right and wrong convertible terms, depending upon popular opinion?
I
believe that right vs. wrong is a psyche that is primarily
gained one's emotions and social
experiences.
Read the following and analyse from the perspective of both the parties -
- Many feel it is RIGHT to smoke and consume alcohol, whereas several others find it to be WRONG.
- Marrying someone of choice sounds RIGHT to some, but may be WRONG decision from the perspective of many.
- Committing suicide may seem RIGHT and easy option by a handful of people. On
the contrary, it is perceived to be a WRONG decision by most.
- Some believe war and/or revenge is the RIGHT way, others believe peace and communion may solve an issue.